What Should I Do?
Below are some options you can choose to take after being raped.
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First Steps
- Find a safe environment - anywhere away from the attacker. Ask a trusted friend to stay with you for moral support.
- Know that what happened was not your fault.
- Call your local Rape Crisis Hotline to get guidance and support. In San Francisco call San Francisco Women Against Rape's 24-hour hotline at 415-647-7273 for free, confidential support.
- Get medical attention. Even with no physical injuries, it is important to determine the risks of STDs and pregnancy.
- Preserve evidence of the attack - don't bathe or brush your teeth.
- Go to SAN FRANCISCO GENERAL HOSPITAL'S EMERGENCY ROOM AT 1001 POTRERO AVENUE. San Francisco General Hospital is the only hospital in San Francisco County that is fully prepared to conduct forensic evidence collection. Ask the hospital to conduct a rape kit exam to preserve forensic evidence. You can ask the nurse at the hospital for a rape crisis advocate from San Francisco Women Against rape to accompany you to the hospital to provide information and support during the exam.
- If you suspect you were drugged, ask that a urine sample be collected. The sample will need to be analyzed later on by a forensic lab.
- You can choose to report the attack to police by calling 911 or have the police called when you go to the emergency room at San Francisco General Hospital. A counselor on San Francisco Women Against Rape's Hotline 415-647-7273 or the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE can help you understand the process of involving the police.
- Write down all the details you can recall about the attack & the attacker.
- If you know that you will never report, still consider:
- Call San Francisco Women Against Rape's Hotline at 415-647-RAPE or the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE for free, confidential counseling, 24-hours a day.
- Recognize that healing from rape takes time. Give yourself the time you need. Know that it's never too late to call. Even if the attack happened years ago, the National Sexual Assault Hotline or the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline can still help. Many victims do not realize they need help until months or years later.
Medical Attention & Evidence Collection
Involving the Police
Choosing Not to Report to the Police
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If you have been sexually assaulted, remember:
It was not your fault.
You are not alone.
You deserve support.
You have rights.
Your rights include...
- To be treated with respect, dignity and courtesy.
- To file a police report and receive services regardless of your relationship to the assailant.
- To not be judged because of your race, age, class, gender, sexual orientation or occupation.
- To have a sexual assault advocate come with you to medical care, police and legal proceedings.
- To privacy when meeting with a counselor or police officer.
- To confidentiality when speaking with a counselor or advocate.
- To understand any forms you are asked to sign.
- To as questions and get answers about any tests, exams, medications or treatments.
- To be told about any necessary follow-up care and testing.
- To voice complaints and expect to have them heard.




